My life is in shambles. Just out of a four year relationship, I have no idea how to meet and talk to women.

So I've picked up Tinder. And I'm 98.5% sure I'm doing it wrong.

A lovely young lady (who we'll call Kara) and I matched on Tinder. She had a few cute pictures to sort through, but I wanted to get a taste for who Kara really is.

So I did the natural thing: Google the company she works for and find her last name in the company directory and look her up on Facebook.

Luckily she seems like a totally lovely and normal girl. But now it's going to be so awkward at the wedding when I tell her how we really met.