I feel ridiculous writing to you about this but because I feel so silly, that’s why I’m telling you. I can’t decide if this is something that is eating away at me for no reason or if I have a valid point.


My fiancée and I have been together 4 years. We’re getting married next summer. We’ve been putting off our wedding because we’re expecting. The little girl arrives in January.

The thing I want to check my sanity on is the fact that I saw a photo on Instagram where my fiancé was tagged. He was kissing the pregnant belly of a co-worker. Normally, this wouldn’t be a major issue but the co-worker is his ex-girlfriend. To make matters worse, he’s been questioning me on whether or not I’m “ready” to get married and “maybe we should wait one more summer.”

I can’t stop thinking about all of this. I’m sick over it and I know if I say something to him, he’ll blow it off like it was no big deal. I came across the photo – he didn’t tell me about it. I think that may be what’s making it even worse.

What do you think my next step should be?


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