dear keke and kat

Who do you think is in the wrong here? Is he overreacting for unfriending him online and in real life? Or does he have a point that his friend is too selfish to be friends with?

Someone will likely not pick you over their family, and shouldn't. But should this guy expect her to change her family routine? Or should he just dip?

For me, if someone wouldn't fully commit, that would be a problem. But it sounds like they are committed, but without the label. Are labels really that important? Should it matter what you call each other if the relationship is great otherwise?

If she trusts him, should it matter? Or does she have room to be angry since he never told her about it in the first place?

Would you do it?! I wouldn't date a guy that dated my friend, but that's just me. But if she's not really my close friend.. I'm not sure. There's a grey area there. What would you do?

The only thing is, he's a dead-beat dad. He doesn't see his kids or support them financially. He doesn't have a good relationship with his ex and doesn't really claim the kids. He's essentially not in their lives at all. I feel guilty when he spends money on me or us or our life together knowing that his kids could be lacking.

This dilemma came from a friend of a friend who is at a loss for what to do in this situation.. what would you do?!

Most of us have been over someone whether they cheated or the relationship was just over. And sometimes people will jump through some very big hoops to try to win that person back.

This is tricky because the gesture is obviously sweet and sentimental and not an easy thing for him to talk about.

I'm always a fan of just squashing it with a conversation.. but she's made it clear that it's not her favorite thing. I agree that a lock on the door will only stifle an issue that clearly needs to be talked about.