Dear Keke and Kat: BF Getting Lunch With Another Woman

Before we get too far into this, just know that the "other woman" is his female coworker. There's a lot of factors that can go into this. Have you met her? Is he being honest about it? Are there other issues that have made you question his loyalty? Today's Keke and Kat letter actually springs from an upcoming #KatFished episode and is summarized as:

Dear Keke and Kat,

My boyfriend has been getting lunch with his female coworker. I only know this not because he told me, but because I found a lip gloss in his car and he said it must've been his coworkers. When I asked why she was in his car, he said because they've been going to lunch together to discuss work deals and things.

 

He never mentioned that to me before I found the lip gloss. I don't think he's lying about who the lip gloss came from, and I don't think he's cheating on me. But I'm finding myself increasingly irritated that he never mentioned it and I've never met this coworker who he's been sharing meals with.

 

Is it wrong of him to keep that from me, or am I wrong to be upset about it?

If she trusts him, should it matter? Or does she have room to be angry since he never told her about it in the first place?