dear keke and kat

Most of us are totally fine with doing favors for a friend or family member and more than happy and willing to help someone out when they are down and out. But what happens when that family member or friend is actually taking advantage of your kindness? What do you do?!

This has become a huge fight in the household. Her mom siding with her, and myself on an island trying to keep rules in the house. Should I give in?

The age old question: when you break up, who gets what? How do you properly split your items? And what happens to the items that you can't split. like a pair of tickets?

Well, that title just sounds terrible. Like, awful. But, I'm not a parent, so I don't know how it would be to get used to a schedule and a normal routine and then have to switch that up for three moths during the summer.

Social media has its pros and cons. And a major con is being constantly on it. There's always notifications popping up. A tag. A like. A comment. A new follower. They make it easy to find reasons to keep hitting that app and spending more time. One of our listeners is having a problem with his girlfriend's social media usage:

I'd be upset as well, but calling them out won't probably do anything for him other than making him feel validated in the moment. Knowing that you'll see them, maybe have something planned that will give you the upper hand and not look petty. Because having the upper hand at the end of a breakup is always what's important.

Outside of co-habitating with a couple different boyfriends, I've never had a roommate. I love my own space way too much, plus have two cats that I treat as my daughters and wouldn't trust someone else to not shut the front door or close the toilet lid and suddenly they'd be in the streets covered in toilet water.

To each their own, but you should really be closing the blinds if you live in a neighborhood. I don't know how I would approach them about it, though? That's so awkward! Maybe an anonymous letter and leave it in their mailbox?!

One thing is right, she's definitely not cheating. Maybe she didn't know how he would react and that's why she kept it a secret. I don't know how I'd feel if I came across a secret like this. It would be hard to get over. Has anyone kept a secret this big from you?

The age old problem: your parents picking a favorite. As a middle child, I'm fully aware that this can happen and does happen in most, if not all families.