Dear Keke and Kat: I’m in Love With a Deadbeat
Our latest 'Dear Keke and Kat' letter summarized reads as basically:
"Dear Keke and Kat:
The guy I've been with and am in love with is great. We have an amazing connection, we get along, my friends and family love him, he's got a great job and our intimacy is perfect, everything is all there.
The only thing is, he's a dead-beat dad. He doesn't see his kids or support them financially. He doesn't have a good relationship with his ex and doesn't really claim the kids. He's essentially not in their lives at all. I feel guilty when he spends money on me or us or our life together knowing that his kids could be lacking.
I don't know what to do because I can see myself starting a family with him, but am not sure how to do so when he's not taking care of his last family. It's not my place to tell him what to do, and it's not a feeling that is going away. I'm unsure how to move forward in our relationship or if I should at all. What do I do?"
Well.. what would you do?! I personally wouldn't be okay dating someone who isn't responsible in that way. Should she break up with him, or move forward in the relationship?